You are made of wires…
A deliciously complex bundle of nerves, neurons, meridians, veins, arteries and sinews.
When these wires get tangled, hydraulics get jammed, signals go offline, and the psyche gets split.
Disharmony is compounded as sexual voltage increases.
The system gets ‘sticky’ and the power, flow and enjoyment of sex becomes disturbed.
Our bodies natural rhythms are sabotaged by our anxieties, habits and neurosis.
Premature ejaculation, erectile disfunction, overheating, sexual anxiety, and impotency are natural outcomes to this.
As we scamper for devices, drugs, and addictions to counter this, we put ourselves even further out of balance…
…and sex is often the first thing we turn to.
Using sex purely to annihilate ourselves may give us temporal relief, but it doesn’t do much for our potency or endurance.
Nor does it allow us to enjoy the more cosmic, ground shaking aspects of deep lovemaking.
So how do we break this cycle?
Is that a yawn I hear?
The word isn’t exactly sexy I know.
A Zen monk staring at a wall, sexless and austere, isn’t going to appear on the front cover of Men’s Health magazine.
But before you trash this idea completely, or rush out for incense, buddha statues and mini waterfalls, know that there is a lot more to meditation than you think.
Every guy has the chance to access the profound benefits meditation provides.
Especially if he understands it’s connection to pleasure.
Whether sitting in full lotus surrounded by candles or sitting at a bus stop surrounded by old ladies, meditation is nothing more that the practice of insight.
This insight occurs when you become acutely aware of the frivolity of the mind and the renegade nature of all life’s assumptions.
True insight arrises in a state of quiescence, when the eternal moment eclipses our incessant inner dialogue.
Regular practice begins to accumulate a deep sense of presence.
– presence that follows you throughout your day,
– presence that effects your interactions with others.
– presence that has a profound effect on your bodies response to orgasm.
Unwieldy and uncontrolled reactions to high arousal can become smoother as you attune to the expansive nature of meditation.
This doesn’t mean that sexual pleasure becomes neutral or lifeless. In fact the opposite occurs.
Meditation + Sex = Profound Pleasure.
This doesn’t mean sitting like Buddha om’ing while some ravenous woman has her mad way with you.
It means that the cultivation of your mind and nervous system will greatly influence the way you respond to pleasure.
Pleasure that was once very localized begins to be felt throughout your entire body.
Pleasure that was once needy, desperate or frustrating becomes liberating to the psyche.
Rather than something to chase, pleasure becomes you. You become pleasure.
You awaken to the profound nature of what it is to be sexually connected with another.
You become her as she becomes you.
What was previously mundane becomes magical as vast territories and ecstatic landscapes become available to you.
If sex is a storm, the master stands in its eye.
If sex is an ocean, you become a world class surfer on 60ft waves of bliss.
This is Meditation.
I want you to have this.
I want you to demystify its nature and make it a part of your everyday experience.
I want you to have the skills and mastery so you can not only take your woman to new heights, but you can go there with her.
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